When you date, you’re constantly trying to determine whether or not that person has the capacity to understand your needs in such a way that you could spill your soul and not be judged.
ENTJ: You’ll stay single until someone stops you in your tracks.
You can’t see having a relationship that isn’t meaningful.
You’re looking for a relationship with someone who sees and accepts all of you, as you are.
Usually, you don’t even recognize your feelings until you start to read into everything they do and question if they’re really all that into you.
That’s when the fun and the games suddenly gets real, and you know it’s too late; you’ve already fallen.
You won’t even consider someone a romantic option unless you can 1) see a possible future with them, and 2) take it slow.It might take them a while to get the hint, but that’s OK; you’ll be around. You’ll happily explore lots of connections, for weeks or months, before jumping to the next new thrill. You are the quintessential pursuer, and are intrigued by an unpredictable person whose next move you can’t quite figure out.ISTP: You’re happy single until someone shows you life is better with company. You are the chill, up-for-anything friend who doesn’t want to be tied down to a long-term obligation.Like anything, you hold relationships to a high standard, and won’t end up in one unless you can see yourself reaching greater heights with that person. You’re perfectly content alone, doing your own thing and following your own path — but you’re always open to the excitement of someone who triggers your emotional side.You want to feel inspired by the connection you create with another human being; someone you want to write about, sing about, and finally open up to. You’re not sure what the person will be like, but you know the feelings you’ll have when you find them.