From your question, I can tell that you two were together in the past.There was a period during which you two broke up, and now you are back together.When you find your boyfriend is still on a dating site, you have two choices really.You can confront him or you can downgrade him and pull back from the relationship.This may also be a sign to you that you are a lot more invested into him than he is into you.After all, you wouldn’t dream of still being on a dating site would you? Is he really your boyfriend or has your imagination carried you away in this relationship?I personally still get emails from Match saying I have messages or so and so winked and I haven’t logged onto that site in over two years.I am not on a dating site, even though it appears I am. So before your analyzing mind goes into overdrive, make sure that he is actually active and doesn’t just have some dormant profile up there.
They keep these secrets because they fear your emotional reaction.You withdraw emotionally when you see he’s not actually fully in.He’s not necessarily a bad man, but he just hasn’t arrived emotionally.They are pacing the relationship in their own minds to a degree. At this moment, today, right now, you are most likely more invested and farther ahead in this relationship than he is. Managing your emotions is something that you will be glad you did later down the road as opposed to going bat shit crazy on him.We are not in our Feminine Energy when we act bat shit crazy and it’s just not attractive. Consider how you discovered this gut wrenching piece of information.